My husband was arrested on CDV charges (1st offense) in July '10, & in August was guilty on a lower charge of Simple Assault. CPS is involved because our 2 month old son was in my arms. He is very flaky in attendance for BIP Treatment ordered by DSS. DSS offered him supervised visitation at Social Services, but he denied that visitation (I would have fought it anyways). He sends threatening texts to kill me, texts about signing his rights over, talks trash about my daughter (not his biologically), and just harasses me to no end. I've reported all this to DSS & police.
I would like to think I can file divorce under abuse & abandonment. How can I protect my infant son from visitation w/ this maniac? I've read it's pretty much impossible since he is the father. Why is this?