My husband and I 4 months ago got into an arguement where I threw coffee on him, and then it led to fighting over who was going to hold our 4 month old son and I ended up falling over the crib and he fractured his arm as a result. No charges or anything were made of that incident. Then last week my husband and I got into another arguement, and he told me he should "smash me in the face" I told him "go ahead do it, I dare you" then he did it and I called the police. They arrested him and based their claim on the fact that he was abusive before. I'm not interested in pressing charges, is there anything I can do? His bail has a mandatory no contact order in place so I can't speak with him.