I met this girl on a dating app and we started talking and she said she wanted to video chat and have some fun on there so we did video chat and she showed stuff and I showed stuff then she recored me showing stuff and said if I didn’t pay her she will send it it out on YouTube, and to my family members on Facebook.
This is likely a scam. Usually the scammers send recorded videos or images instead of live chat. But this could be a new twist. You do not mention whether she is (or claims to be) underage. If not, there is no issue with going to prison. Best to block her account and have no further contact. If she releases anything you may be able to pursue her for revenge porn.
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This is a common scam on the Internet. There is no girl, there is no mother or father -- only Internet fraudsters.
Do NOT send them any money. They are trying to blackmail you, and you are the victim here - not some young girl who does not exist.
Block them and do not communicate with them in the future.
I have never heard of these fraudsters actually posting the pictures because 1) It takes time and makes them no money, and 2) It makes it too easy for them to get caught.
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Naked photo scammers are extremely common.
If the nasty photos of you/them were taken when you/they were under 18 years old, the Police and/or the FBI might be interested in prosecuting the person for various CHILD PORNOGRAPHY crimes IF they can be traced and identified. If you were 18+, your state may have a "Revenge Porn" law that can be used, again IF they can be found.
The hot young girl (or boy) is probably a hairy, smelly 40-year-old in their underwear, playing on their X-Box or computer in their mom's basement. Google: "On the Internet, nobody knows you're a dog".
The best advice is don't pay, don't send more pictures, block and ignore them, and don't worry about it. These scammers rarely, if ever, bother to post pictures or "send them to your family", because doing that takes time and effort, won't get them any money, AND it would expose them to criminal charges. Typically, they just move on to set up the next sucker.
You can also try this:
1. Tell them that you will send them a check if they give you their name and address. Then turn this over to the cops. (p.s. don't send a check.)
2. Text "her" that you are (your name)'s mom, and (your name) committed suicide because of what you did, you are a horrible excuse for a human being, and you can rot in hell. Then block "her" number.
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