Police will likely tell you they had higher priority calls than your noise complaint.
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You should contact a local lawyer to discuss your criminal charge. In Kansas, Kansas Legal Services provides free/affordable legal services to individuals with low income.
If the situation is as bad as you described, you may want to consider filing your own protection from abuse -- that will give you an opportunity to explain the situation to the judge. If you prevail, it may provide some relief.