Now that you are older and in a different place in life, you would want to file a petition to modify the prior order granting a temporary guardianship to your mother. The fact that your mother does not consent and in fact opposes it is only one factor. You need to provide evidence to the court that it would now be in the best interest of your oldest, to return custody back to you. Your grandmother's testimony will support your position.
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