the only way to do this is for you to have someone else and you together file a petition to adopt the child. dad consents to the adoption. he has no more financial obligation going forward. he still owes all the arrearages and since you are on aid, the state will pursue him. he cannot go bankrupt on this. there is no statute of limitations on collections. he owes interest at 9% simple until paid in full. the interest on the 15,000 is 112.5 per month.
he has no right to visit after the adoption.
he cannot just voluntarily sign over his rights unless there is an adoption for him to consent to.
There is a form for voluntary relinquishment of parental rights. You should see a family lawyer. You likely want to keep him on the hook for child supportand want to collect support if you can.
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Parental rights cannot be terminated by a private person. This can only happen by order of court upon a petition from DCFS or the State's Attorney's office. The only exception is by consent or finding of abuse in the course of an adoption procedure. The father's child support arrearage continue to accrue unless and until his rights are terminated.
I would urge you to consult an experienced family attorney. Your child's father can indeed sign away much if not all of his rights to his own child, but this will not likely affect his child support obligation. The "rights" are regarding decision making abilities such as educational permission and consent for the child to have medical treatment. Also these "rights" are largely custody and visitation focused.
You are writing that your child is receiving taxpayer subsidized medicaid and LINK. Why would the State allow the taxpayer to help subsidize your child and allow the actual father to not pay child support? He can waive his rights all he wants, but his child support obligation is another matter entirely.
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He cannot just relinquish his paternity unless you have another father ready to adopt your child. The state will not allow a child to be made fatherless unless the state takes the parental rights away for neglect or abuse.
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