My Mother in Law started her own business and it failed so she lost her house. I invited her to move in with us until she got on her feet. Since then she has not tried to find a job, she has spent all of her money and continues to spend any Social Security money that comes in. She told my husband it's because he owes her for her generosity in the past (which I guess was raising him?). She said she would not leave without a court order. She is unstable and said "F%$K YOU!" to my Husband in front of my 7 and 8 year olds today. I am afraid to leave them alone with her. The kids say she is mean to them when we're not home. Obviously we have stopped her being allowed to be alone with them.
She needs serious mental health treatment but she's mean and nasty. I am through helping her. She just keeps spending and spending. She never leaves the house and seems to be coming up with medical conditions prohibiting her from doing ANYTHING to contribute to the household. She is only 62, there is no reason she cannot find work so she can get out on her own and we want her out now!!!