When you have done all you can do-it is time to hire an attorney to assist you.
If the attorney has the original will-it must be filed.
Once filed-it is a public record and you may obtain a copy.
All of the assets could have had beneficiaries and not subject to the will.
The answer given does not imply that an attorney-client relationship has been established and your best course of action is to have legal representation in this matter.
No one on this forum can help you in a situation like this. If your mother had assets of any appreciable amount, you can find a probate specialist to meet with you at no cost to assess your case and determine what needs to be done and if it is worth the fight. Do this immediately. Depending on where you live (I don't know NC zip codes), I may be able to refer you to someone who can help. If the relatives are taking things, it may be impossible to prove what they took and who took it, so you have no time to lose.
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You need to immediately consult with a local probate attorney. No one should be permitted to take assets until an executor or personal representative is appointed by the court. Don't delay.
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