All of the information you seek is available in the discovery process, but while obtaining this information is technically possible to do on your own, practically speaking it will be very difficult, if not impossible to accomplish on your own. As has been suggested, an experienced attorney will best know WHAT to look for, WHERE to look for it, and HOW best to go about it. Best of luck to you.
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