You can always ask the court to have the father advance you attorney fees and court costs since he is in a more stable financial situation. In the alternative, you can also seek Legal Aid or other legal institutions for individuals that are unable to afford an attorney and that will not charge you. If some charge, it is very minimal. Keep in mind that the orders are temporary. You still have a chance, so do not give up.
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