A name change requires a court order. For instructions how to change your child's name in California (without an attorney). see:
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Your statements indicate that a Name Change of your baby is not the real issue.
If you ex takes you to court, in a Paternity action, you can ask for a name change by and through the Petition to Establish a Parental Relationship. If he takes you to Court, regarding a baby, it seems unlikely that a name change will be granted. You could seek a request to hyphenate the name, using his and your name, that is a common request.
You have only recently exited DCFS, it seems premature to start a new round of fighing. Additionally, since you have been to DCFS, the court may question your motives, as well as your ongoing sobriety.
If you are in need of support, you can seek the assistance of Child Support Services.
Currently, there are no orders regarding custody, so you are not obligated to go to his house.
You might want to let things settle down for the time being, and focus on your sobriety and your baby.
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