You have multiple questions in there, all springing from your relationship with this guy. He now has a no-contact order against your current boyfriend and you've got nothing against him if I read this right. While you have a technical right to file an appeal within 30 days of the entry of the order, this isn't something you can do by yourself. Appeals are not a user-friendly process and it's not easy to do it successfully. Your only hope is to get to a competent domestic relations lawyer in your area. Expect to spend something upwards of $5,000 on an appeal. Alternatively, finding a way to separate yourself permanently from the other guy would seem to be a cheaper and probably better approach in the long run. Good luck.