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How, do I take over personal affairs for someone unable to?

Clinton Township, MI |

I have 2 doctor letters, and power of attorney for my mom, what is my next step to tak over her affairs? She is making bad decisions, she just gave away her car to a care giver

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You should sit down with her and explain that you are going to help her. I would like to review the power of attorney to assure that its powers survive your mother's incompetence. You should call my offices, or another attorney of your choice with all of the details and for specific advise.
It MIGHT be possible to retrieve the car, and I would be very cautious regarding the care giver who already appears to be taking advantage of your mother's failing.
GET AN ATTORNEY NOW before the is even more harm and loss.

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You are on the right track. If you want to ask a probate court to appoint you as conservator (to handle mom's money) or guardian (to make decisions about her care), you need letters from her doctors. You will also get preference if you are the person she named in her power of attorney. However, you should discuss this carefully with mom. When you apply to the Court they will take away mom's power, not just duplicate it (like mom did in her power of attorney). If you'd like to discuss this, or have mom discuss it with me, please feel free to contact me.


I agree with my colleagues. You may be able to set aside the vehicle transfer, if that is in your mother's best interest, based on the doctors' letters. You may need to go to court to do this, however.

Whether or not this makes sense depends on the facts. If the car is not worth much, your mother would never drive it again, and the caregiver is good for your mother, you might let this go. It could relieve you/your mother of potential liability and ongoing expenses.

In other words, this decision may not be as bad as it would appear on the surface. On the other hand, the caregiver maybe working up to something larger and your mother may not be able to protect herself. There is not enough information to say for sure.

As has been pointed out, the POA allows YOU to act. It does not necessarily prevent your mother from doing so.

James Frederick

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