Secure a restraining order so the next time he tries this he goes to jail. What is improper is having a new romantic relationship in view of your child which might lead to confusion for a young son. But the proper way for ex to do this is to secure a civil court order limiting how you do the visiting with the counselor (which by the way the court might not give him). Hire a family lawyer, work out IN COURT the child support payments and appropriate visiting arrangements. You are within your rights to request that ex be limited to supervised visits given his habit of stalking and threatening you, On a personal level, good for you for leaving him. Further relationship would have become very hard for you and your son,You might find my legal guide on selecting and hiring a lawyer helpful.
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