you need to file a motion to reopen and sue them in district court. get a good immigration attorney, which could have avoided this from the beginning, now you will need to fight because if you allow a sham marriage finding to stay on your record you will never get a green card in the future.
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I agree. Get a good immigration attorney to file the motion to reopen and fight. If the denial specifically states that your marriage was a sham, you will not be able to get another Marriage based petition.
What you are describing is not normal and is indicative of USICS taking advantage of persons who are unrepresented by an attorney. USCIS officers asking questions regarding sexual practices during an adjustment of status interview in order to determine the bona fides of a marriage is improper.
There are a number of different options which are available when a relative (spouse) petition is denied. This includes filing a motion to reopen and/or reconsider, appealing to the Board of Immigration Appeals, filing a new case (the denial is generally without prejudice to filing a new petition) or filing suit in Federal Court. However, there are time limits associated with some of these options and which one is best for you can only be determined after a thorough review of your case.
Schedule a consultation with an experienced immigration attorney who can review your case with you and your husband, advise you as to the options available, and recommend a course of action. You should do this without delay as time is of the essence.
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