The devil is in the details. Why/How did your husband wind up with your son? That is a pretty important piece of information that was left out of the question. Assuming that you are not hiding anything and are a competent parent, the courts will likely require a parenting investigation to investigate both of you and report back to the court who is the best option for the child. If you are represented, then you need to trust your attorney to do what he/she is being paid to do and let the process work.
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