You need experienced counsel to help you through this. A simple divorce, with no children and minimal property can be handled with basic forms. The fact that you and your wife own two houses suggests that you have enough property to warrant protecting it. An experienced attorney can guide you through this process and ensure that your property is fairly split between you and your spouse. Temporary orders can be entered by the Court to fairly deal with all kinds of matters while a fair division of your property is worked out. Best of luck to you.
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For your wife to get an order granting exclusive possession of the house, she needs a court order which would be granted only after a hearing and notice to you. I suggest you get an experienced family law attorney to represent you.
I am not intending this to be legal advice, because I don't know the particulars of your situation. Call me if you would like to discuss this or other isues.
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