The "Gavron warning" is generally given in any case in which one party is asking for spousal support and appears to not be making a REASONABLE effort to become self-supporting or closer to self-supporting. How much "enforcement" occurs depends both on the judge hearing the case and how employable the receiving spouse can be shown to be.
Did the judge give a time line when he gave the warning? The Judge has discretion in deciding when enough time has passed and a person should be self-supporting. He/she will look at all the facts and from that make a determination. When a Judge gives a Gavron warning, a time limit will often be placed on it which lets the supported person know that the Judge is going to look at the issue again.
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The Gavron warning can be enforced. When it is given at the time the spousal support order is made, there is usually no time table established for the reasonable time period. If enough time has passed and the other party has made no effort to become self supporting, you would have to file an Order to Show Cause to terminate the support order. The court would probably give the ex-spouse additional time (setting a specific time table) or might even reduce support in a step-down method.
This can create problems, because if you ask the court to terminate the order, she can ask for the court to raise the order. You need to talk with an experienced Family Law attorney before you open this door.
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