Ex parte is for exigent circumstances only. Your remedies for the violation include filing a contempt, or more appropriately, seeking relief through a regularly noticed Request for Order. However, I would suggest you memorialize what happened in an email so that if you go to court you have evidence of your attempt to resolve it and his response. It may be better for you to do some advanced contact work prior to the next visit to confirm time of arrival and the visitation. If the visitation is interrupted or thwarted again, you may want to consider filing a request with the court and seeking remedies due to the interruption with the Court Ordered visitation.
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1. There's no basis for an ex parte; there's no emergency.
2. A judge is UNlikely to get too upset about a single violation (because it's possible that he actually forgot); if there's a repeat, a judge is more likely to get upset about it.
3. Make sure that your ex has a copy of the court's WRITTEN ORDER, so that he won't "forget" in the future.
Take affirmative steps, such as sending him an email to remind him about when and where the exchange will take place, Text messages are also good, if your can print them. If you speak by phone, follow up with an email or text to memorialize the conversations, Keep a diary and a calendar. I wouldn't go to court with one missed visit, but I would go if a pattern develops. And, if it does, you will be armed with evidence.
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