There is no "right to privacy" in a divorce (or anywhere else - that is a misnomer). If your correspondence references something that would be useful in a divorce proceeding (for example, if you live in an at-fault divorce state and you write a letter admitting to adultery or you write an email to your accountant instructing them to hide assets), then the correspondence would be both relevant and probative to the issue. If, however, the correspondence has nothing to do with the relationship, your finances, etc., then the court probably won't entertain it. But, nothing is "private."
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It depends upon whether the divorce is contested or not, and if it is contested, the issues involved. Certainly, it is possible to retain some privacy if the letters in question contain no relevant information. Good luck!
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I am sorry to hear about your situation. If you wrote letters to your spouse they are now his to do with as he desires. As far as the court file goes, all divorce files are confidential, but the parties can access them so that means you or him can get the info. & show it to others.
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I would be very careful about putting anything to paper right now that you feel might be used against you in a divorce.
As other attorneys have mentioned, *if* what you are alluding to is letters that your wrote in explanation of why you cheated on him or something to that effect, I would think it safe to assume that those are going to get aired out at a trial if that is where your case is headed.
If you haven't already hired an attorney, you might want to consider calling a few, at least for a consultation. Lots of luck.
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