Ultimate defense to these kind of cases is the truth. If she is telling the truth, you have no case for defamation or slander. However, you also could look into intentional infliction of emotional distress.
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It appears that you are concerned about potential criminal charges. Set up a meeting with an attorney as soon as possible.
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