First, Florida does not recognize "legal separation." That said, you are not legally separated until you are divorced, though for purposes of property/asset allocation the court will consider you separated either from the date of filing or the date contained in the petition if agreed to by the other party. If you wife forged your signature, that is a crime. Yes, you can get your half of the return through the courts in the process of your divorce.
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