My ex husband wants my to sign a waiver stating i do not want back child support.
my children are now 22,21 and 18 and he has never really paid child support except for one years worth.
we have been seperated since my youngest child was 3 years old and at that time i had to sign up for medical help for the children through the walfare office and they made me sign up for child support before they would give my children a medical card.
they asked my how much money i wanted my ex to pay and i asked what the min was i could ask for they said $246.00 and month so i said thats fine cause he will never pay it anyway.
He has been in trouble with the law all of his life for drugs and stealing.
He just spent the last 3 years in prison(he will be out for 6 months in october)he will be going back to prison if he does not pay his back child support. Here is my problem,if he goes back to prison this will help nothing it wont get me the back child support and he will lose his disability appeal. is there anyway to sign a temp waiver so he does not go to prison,or some sort of extension. I do not want to see his mother hurt again by him going to prison but i do want the money so i can give it to the children that he has never helped in anyway. His parole officer cant wait to violate him,she has told him as much. I love my ex mother in-law she is a good person and i hate to see her hurt once again over her youngest child but me and my children deserve the money as all of my life i had to work 3 jobs at a time to support them. please help what can i do to keep him from going to prison but still collect the back child support he owes? he is fighting for a disability right now and if i sign the waiver and he gets he lump sum pay my children get screwed again.