You received a proposal. Of course you may respond anyway you wish. Talk to your lawyer and come up with a response to their proposal- accept it, modify it, reject it, or counter it. Ask your lawyer about discovery tools available to you.
I am not intending this to be legal advice, because I don't know the particulars of your situation. Call me if you would like to discuss this or other isues.
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