After I filed for police report against my x's threat that if I mess up his docs, he will make me pay for it before leaving the county. After seeing my police report, he goes and files TRO against me for harassment/threat. I called the hearing because I am 9 hours away to hear the accusation, so now the hearing is in 2 weeks again. During the hearing, the judge mentioned 3 things to me: threatening to go to immigration to report him for marriage fraud, threatening his parents, opening a website on his behalf. For immigration threat, the judge said to my x that he can not make me stop from reporting him anywhere as it's free speech. For parent threat, the judge simply asked me about it after my husband mentioned that, to which i replied that his parents lived in russia and dad died 7 months, then my husband moved to another issue..he said that I told him that I will open up a website on his behalf to say that he married me for green card. The judge then said 'that's harassment!" to open up a website on his behalf! The thing is that I told him that I will open a website and tell my story of how he duped me....but why is this harassment. Also, i just found an email from him in April where he insulted me and threatened me..his exact words "whore...would've kill you" so can I use this against him. Our communication have been via phone and emails...the kill comment he made to me via email. Thanks.