Difficult to answer your question without knowing for sure what, if anything, is on your record. The first step is to check your record. If you do have a criminal record, you should speak with an attorney about possibly getting it sealed. Some types of offenses cannot be sealed. Again, without knowing the offense (if any) it is no possible to give you a precise answer. If you check your record and anything shows up, your record will state the offense in terms that likely will match with the disqualifying offenses. descriptions on your license application.
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Contact an attorney and check your record to see what it is saying. If you have a charge on there that you would like to get vacated hire an attorney to do that. Expungement is another term that you will need to talk to an attorney about in order to take it off of the WA state patrol listing. I don't do this sort of thing so I am not sure of all the correct terms myself but I know you have to petition the Superior court for a hearing and give the State notice of it because they have the right to argue again the action if they want to. Good Luck
I do not know how things were done back in 1986. But, in 2013, I have never heard of any judge in a dissolution case imposing a monetary fine on anyone for domestic violence. The judge may be able to restrict the parent's time with children or order classes based on the history of domestic violence.
You likely should run a background check on yourself to see what others are seeing. If you are still in contact with that supervisor from 2002, perhaps the supervisor still has access to the records and can let you see them.
1) As Mr. Nyugen states, it doesn't sound right that a "divorce" judge would fine you for this, punitive contempt, punishment requires a jury trial, or plea of guilty to a criminal offense, so a fine wouldn't be imposed by a "divorce" judge for slapping your husband. (Judges can only impose punitive contempt for conduct in their presence.) It probably was a criminal conviction. Assault 4th or violation of a protection order would disqualify you from gun possession. See RCW 9.41.040 for the offenses prohibiting firearm possession.
2) To check what is on your record, attorneys like myself have an account with the WSP site to order your record by credit card for around $10, and we get it within minutes. You could go to their site for instructions on how you can order it, although your local District Court clerk or police station could perform a limited check, but due to the recurring issues, it might be best to get the WSP record. Employers can only get "conviction" data, not non-conviction data, unless they are law enforcement, ,so if it showed up on background check, it is likely a conviction.
3) If you do have a conviction based on domestic violence, you can file a motion to vacate it, since five years have passed, the waiting time for a domestic violence offense to vacate. There is no filing fee for that.
4) If you have only an arrest without a conviction, there should have been no fine, but if so, and it shows up, you can ask the WSP to expunge that by sending a form to them, because three years have passed.
5) Without vacating a conviction, you can still petition to Superior Court, under RCW 9.41.047, to have gun rights restored after completing all sentence conditions and showing you are not a danger. But that requires a filing fee.
Without seeing your record, from your description of a "fine" you may have a conviction, and your best bet is a motion in District Court to vacate it, which clears the way for gun possession and no problems with employment.