I am sorry you are going through this. It's unclear though, what your question is. Please repost.
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Why do you feel as if you are being treated as the bad one. You reported it, it was investigated, it is at the state attorney's office for a determination as to prosecution - that is the process. Where in this scenario have you been treated badly, other than by your boyfriend?
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Strangulation and physical beating is never appropriate. Especially from someone who supposedly cares about you. You did the proper thing in reporting the incident to the authorities, and state attorney. Did you file for a restraining order? Oftentimes victims of domestic violence are made to feel as if they did something wrong that warranted the attack. That is not so. You are never responsible for someone's loss of control and violence. Please seek help from women in distress or other organizations that offer assistance, and counseling to victims of domestic violence. You have a daughter to worry about as well since you abuser has wished her dead as well. Be strong and get help. Do not allow this situation to continue.
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