I encourage you to speak with an attorney as you have made somne mistakes. Regardless of what you think of the guy he is the natural father and should be identified as such. If you had taken the time to place the father's name on the birth certificate, child support could have been established without delay. An experienced attorney can help but this should be addressed immediately as that child deserves to have clarity as he matures.
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