I strongly advise you to break up with this man until he cleans up his act. The ex has no legal right whatsoever to dictate to him what he does in his own home. It is the practice in family law that if the ex has minor children not to have new bf's or gf''s stay with them because it would confuse the young ones seeing a new romantic relationship with a non parent. If a 19 year old is upset by you being in his father's life, he needs counselling. Your "man" needs to act like a man and get the ex out of his bedroom so you can go there. The man might try to get an order to show cause in family court why he cannot have you with him, to put presssure on the ex for her to explain to a judge how a 19 year old cannot tolerate seeing Daddy with a gf. Best to use a family lawyer since courts lean to mothers, even when they are not too motherly.
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