Police report initially filed by me, my child's statement taken. 3 wks went by with no action taken. I as the parent, after discussing this with my child decided it would be more emotionally traumatic for my child to proceed. Dectective called wanted a second interview I informed him I wan't pressing charges. He has been harrassing me at home and at my job ever since. He has threatened to have the state take my child and to have my child subpoenaed by the state.The initial Police report was for sexual fondling of my 8yr old by a 50yr old male. I was also told by Detective that my 8yr daughter might have to submit to a physical exam if the state orders it and I have no say in the matter. Should I hire an attorney for my child and do I have to proceed in pressing charges?