Oral (nuncupative) wills used to be permitted under the pre-1998 code in Georgia, but are no longer permitted, so the language of the will is what matters.
Having said that, there may be some situations where all the heirs agree to do something different than what is in the will and a lawyer may find a way to do it. This is not necessarily simple (or even appropriate in some cases) and needs to be discussed between the executor and the lawyer he retains.
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Spoken wills and bequests are worth the paper they are written on, so this would not be a valid way to transfer property, especially real estate. An executor or administrator of an estate can only abide by oral wishes of the decedent if all of the people who would otherwise have inherited the property agree to abide by these wishes. This can be done through probate, and can be very tricky. There may also be tax consequences if not done correctly, and the decedents debts will have to be paid before any property can be transferred at all. Therefore, if everyone agrees to do what the decedent stated, and I mean everyone, see a probate attorney about how to do it.
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The very short answer to your question is no, assuming the deceased had his or her primary residence in Georgia. As already pointed out by the first two respondents, if all of the heirs (or beneficiaries, if there is a Will but it just does not contain these "last wishes") agree to honor the spoken wishes, then they may be able to do so, but there is no requirement that they do so and there may be tax consequences. And the heirs/beneficiaries should really seek good legal advice before trying to carry out any transfers based on the decedent's spoken wishes.
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I agree with everything the other attorneys have said concerning oral wills and their absolute ineffectiveness under Georgia law. They are also correct that it is possible for all heirs and interested persons to come to a settlement agreement concerning administration of the estate. I will add, however, that it is possible to give property away prior to death and thus distribute property in an alternative way. Not knowing what actions your relative took or what she said, there is no way to determine whether she met the requirements based on what you have provided. To qualify as a gift, your relative would have had to have intended to make a present transfer of her interest in the property and have made some type of delivery of the object to the intended recipient. In limited cases where someone is on their death bed, a person can make what is known as a gift causa mortis of personal property. Such a deathbed gift has several specific elements that are hard to prove. I can't say that I've personally seen a true gift causa mortis, but there are cases out there that you can read about. Unless there are additional facts evidencing a gift during your relative's life, you will be stuck with the laws of intesacy, the relative's last valid will, or a settlement agreed upon by all the interested parties, whatever the case may be. Consulting an attorney to review the facts of your situation is advisable.