My soon to be eight year old son has been visiting his father every other weekend per court order for 6 years. He has never wanted to go, but I have always made him as I felt that it was in his best interest (long term). He has recently asked me to promise him that he would never have to go over there again. The rules and punishements that he recieves there are not similar to those that he recieves at home, and he is uncomfortable when he is there. If he asks to call me (mom) just to talk to me or to come home, he is told no. I don't know what to do. I have been making him go there for 6 years. In my opinion, if he hasn't started wanting to spend time with his biological father in 6 years, he is never going to want to.I have spoken to the biological father regarding rules at punishments at his house, and am told that what goes on at his house is none of my business. Which I agree with. However, what goes on with my son IS my business regardless of where he is. I have sole custody with joint legal custody.
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