Congratulations. You are planning in advance. The earlier you start, the more options you will have. You need to schedule a consultation with a local Elder Law planning attorney. The Avvo search tool may be of help.
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The medicaid laws are complex and strict, so you need an attorney with experience in this area. Some possibilities to protect assets for a spouse remaining outside of the nursing home as well as a special needs child have been created by Congress. However, taking advantage of these possibilities must be done correctly or your father may be disqualified for medicaid when he needs it.
Planning ahead of time is crucial so get yourself a good elder law attorney!
You should work with an attorney in tandem with a financial planner or accountant so that whatever needs to be done is uniform and works as intended. Quite often, one seeks advice from an attorney and then does something else when they talk to financial planner, and vice-versa. Having everyone on the same page is crucial to your intent to provide a successful plan for your parents and sister.
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First, a word of caution: Medical laws are exceedingly complex and proper planning should not be taken lightly. You absolutely need to consult an Elder Law attorney - preferably a Certified Elder Law Attorney. Fortunately, you have the foresight to seek questions to your answers sooner than later.
Medicaid (referred to Medical Assistance at the state level) is a complex web of regulations and policy interpretations. However, there are certain provisions referred to as the "spousal impoverishment provisions" that are designed to protect the Community Spouse.
An Elder Law Attorney can work with you to maximize your parents' resources in an effort to assure your mom has what she needs to provide for herself.
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