You can get married after she files ... you don't have to wait until the discharge.
Practically speaking, however, I would wait until after the 341(a) Meeting of Creditors (approx 30 days after filing) because she will be required to disclose her change in circumstances to the Trustee.
I agree with Mr. Whitaker. BUT, it you are living together YOUR income will be considered in whether or not she passes the means test. Consult with BK attorney to have the numbers run. Good luck.
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