It sounds like you should definitely hire an attorney. First, you will not necessarily get half, and you could get more than half. Pennsylvania is not a 50/50 state, but an equitable distribution state. This means that marital property is divided based on various factors. It wont necessarily be an equal split. You should really hire an attorney as you will not get help from the court until something is filed. I hope this helps.
You should really sit down with a divorce attorney for a consultation to discuss your rights to both spousal support and equitable distribution of your assets. If you can't work these things our with your husband, you will need to use the court system to get what you're entitled to.
For your protection, you should definitely consult with an attorney. However, I would immediately file for spousal support as you are entitled to support and you can at least file on your own to start the process. I would do this as soon as possible as the amount of support which you will be awarded is retroactive to the date that you filed.
Depending upon your income and assets, it may also be possible that you will receive greater than 50% of the assets, although your attorney will need to know more facts than what you have posted.
Please contact me if you have any additional questions.
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