I have 3 kids, but the oldest (will be 9 in July) has made it very clear that he wants to live with his grandma and not change schools after I move in with my bf. I am fine with this arrangement, as I'll still be close and able to visit him every day on my way home from school, and know he's always been a 'grandma's boy' aka closest to her. I just am not sure if I need to actually give her custody or if I can or how to go about this legally since he'd be primarily under her guardianship and living in her home.
My kids all receive medicaid, he has speech therapy services, ADHD in which medication is required. When I re-apply for his benefits, is there something different I must do? Is it legal for me to remain his legal gaurdian, even if he isn't living under the same roof?