If you currently have a divorce case pending you should read the document entitled "Preliminary Injunction." This document pertains to you if you have filed a Petition for Dissolution of Marriage and to your spouse if you have served the documents on him. It prevents anyone from leaving the state with children without consent of the opposing party. If he refuses to permit you to leave, you would have to make a request to the court.
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I am sorry that you are gong through this. If an action is already filed in court then you will need the courts permission to move out of state, if you have not filed, then you should consult with a local attorney in your state and in the state you plan to move to prepare a strategy, take care.
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You will either need your husband's written consent to allow you to relocate or a court order. Unfortunately you cannot relocate with the children unless one of these conditions is met.
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