I'm the oldest of the grandchildren and my grandmother's health is deteriating. She has been taking care of her daughter(my mother) whom is on SSI for bi-polar/schizophrenia and cannot mentally take care of my grandmother's physcial/health/financial needs. The grandchildren are emotionally blackmailing her that they will kill themselves, burn her houses down, isolate her and more;however, the grandchildren are trying to get me out of the way by lying to the police and making false police reports. I'm the only male in the family left so they prey on the fact that I can't do much but express my concern and raise my voice but have no support. APS been involved but never pursuing anything. She scared to be yelled at or physically abused, mother is passive about everything and keeps quiet.