My husband has cheated on me and has abused me. He pays all the bills: rent, cable, phone, electric, insurances etc. I have worked very part time making roughly $300-500 per month. He has almost always worked for cash and as of right ow is paying all our household bills, roughly $2400 per month and paying his own rent and bills. Am I elegible for alimony on top of child support and how do i prove his income?The $2400 is what i need to live on he makes 2-3times that amount. He will openly admit to the adultery and told our children that is what he did when he told me. They are 15 and 19 and could testify to that fact.He hasnt paid his taxes in over 3 yrs.
This reads like a parade of badness!
Alimony is certainly a strong possibility if the incomes you are describing can be proved. Obviously cash payments are difficult to track exactly, but all you really need to do in court is convince a judge that the income is happening, not necessarily document it. So, for instance, if he is showing very little documented income, but you can prove that he is paying thousands of dollars a month on this, that, and the other, the judge is going to want to hear how he got the income that enables his expenses.
You definitely will benefit from having a lawyer helping you get this done, given the information you have put down above. I am based in Portland, and regularly work with divorce clients in your area. Feel free to contact me if you want to discuss your case further.
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You absolutely need an attorney since you've indicated several very large problems with your case. First, if your husband works for cash, proving income will be very difficult. Forensic examination of records may be needed, perhaps a private investigator. Second, you want alimony, which is not an automatic right and not intended to simply be a "forever" paycheck to a former spouse - you'll be expected to prove that you are incapable of supporting yourself and that you need the money to gain employment skills. Plus, you need to remember that his income is not that high - $2400/month is not a lot of income. After taxes, the take home is only about $1800-2000 (I'm guessing). And, he will have living expenses as well. So, how much income is actually available for alimony? Not much. ME is a no-fault divorce state, so you can proceed under that method - you can file a "fault" divorce, but then you'll have to prove your claims of adultry and abuse - you'll need to examine witnesses, documents, depose people, etc. It's far easier to go with a no-fault divorce.
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