You probably want to retain the services of an attorney to properly draft and record your new deed. Changing your name (if you didn't do it at the time you were married) will require you to bring a change-of-name petition with the probate and family court.
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The facts are not clear from your statement so I do not know enough of your situation (and your question) to address your inquiry. For instance, what do you mean by "and change names from previous owner to my maiden name and then change buyer to my new married name and add husband."? You certainly should consult an attorney who can develop the facts with you and provide a specific answer.
The following may partially address your concerns. First, to add anyone as an owner, your husband or anyone else, the owner (you) will need to sign a new deed. Second, in the new deed you are likely to be referred to by your current (married) name if you so choose, with a reference to the fact that you were "formerly" known by your maiden name. Third, if your house is mortgaged you should ask the attorney whether your transfer of an interest in deeded real estate will trigger a "due on sale" clause in the mortgage, and if so, whether you can get the consent of the bank to such transfer of interest.
Most probably what you seek to will not be difficult, especially for any number of experience conveyancing attorneys, but you will need an attorney to avoid making any one of many possible mistakes in this matter.
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Congrats on the wedding.
You really can't modify a current deed. You could hire an attorney to property convey the property to add your husband on. The deed would make reference to your maiden name and convey the property to both you and your husband. You also would want to discuss the tenancy you would like, whether it be tenancy by the entirety or tenants in common.