Your current attorney is in a better position to analyze your situation than an attorney you are asking for advice from online who has not been involved in your case. That attorney would be more apprised of the facts of the case than any of us could be. If you are not happy with the attorneys advice, you need to sit down with your attorney and talk to your attorney about your feelings and why. Even If you trust your attorneys recommendations, you can always try the case and see what the judge awards and make sure that you prove what you are setting out here in the trial.
There are many factors that can affect how best to handle this matter and the best advise is usually to hire an attorney immediately. Unfortunately the advice above is a guess that is based on very scanty facts. Circumstances of all sorts can change the ultimate answer you need. If you want to know how best to handle the situation, make an appointment with an attorney and get good solid advise based on more exact facts. The money spent might give you the peace of mind you need. The information provided is not intended as legal advice that can be relied on in part because we do not have the entire the situation. No Attorney/Client relationship is intended, implied or created. We are a debt relief agency and we help people file for relief under the bankruptcy laws.
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