My husband and I have been separated for two months. He called me last week and told me that he had filed for divorce and that I needed to go to his attorney's office and pick up the papers.
The law requires that a defendant-party in any legal proceedings be afforded due process. Due process includes service of pleadings and other papers. Unless you accept alternative service in the form of executing an acknowledgment of service in proper form, which is then subsequently filed in the court to prove service, then the default method of service applies. You must be personally served
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You have to be served unless you sign a document called an Acknowledgment of Service. Before you do anything go consult with an attorney.
Based on your separate comment that you already signed an agreement (something you never should have done without counsel), take that agreement to your own lawyer immediately. It could pose you significant problems. Do not sign anything else without counsel. And while usually I'd say it was safe to pick up papers (and NOT sign them) to show to a lawyer, the fact you already signed something is a reason to see your lawyer first.
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