She and my children are living with a married man. He has shown my son texts and emails that his wife has sent him regarding our conversations. My 12 yr old son says he hates me and doesn't want to see me. I can never get anyone to answer the phone so I haven't talked to my children in months. She goes against the 50/50 payments for visitation costs (I am in the military and was overseas). My mother has been blocked from my son's phone. She gives me only basic information about their schools such as the name of the school (I had to go online and email the school to find out teachers and coaches). She doesn't answer emails, and has now filed a motion to modify visitation, and I will most likely be served when I step off the plane to get them for the summer. Please help!
You need to very carefully, methodically, and precisely document your case. Children are not witnesses, and what you have been told by others is hearsay. You need physical documents (emails, texts, school records, phone records). You need to oppose her motion to modify visitation, and bring your own motion(s) appropriate to the circumstances (including a motion to have her held in contempt if you can prove that she has wilfully and intentionally violated a clear court order). Consult with a family law attorney in the area where the children reside to get advice specific to your case (including a review of the existing orders and any new motion to modify). Representing yourself in situations like this almost never works out very well.
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