Question 1: The divorce paperwork must be filed in the Superior Court in the county in which the defendant resides. It is not legally binding unless a final order has been issued by the judge of that Superior Court.
Question 2: Yes, the husband's estate must continue to pay the alimony until the wife either remarries or dies if that is what is stated in the separation agreement.
You would need to consult an attorney to address the particulars of your own situation.
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