8 months before I filed for divorce I created an Instagram account that was linked to my facebook, cell, and email. I posted primarily family and kids, during this time I allowed my now exwife access and she posted pics while they were away with family. Once I filed for divorce I changed all my passwords to include this one. At this point it is the only social media account I have and use it on a regular basis. My ex has sent me multiple messages asking me to delete this page or remove any photos of our children because she objects to pages I follow or pics I've liked. Can one parent dictate something like this when it comes to the children? We do share custody 50/50. I feel that she is overreaching, but before I tell her I have no intention of deleting my social media account because she was offended by something that I liked I thought I would ask if there were legal issues with doing so here in California. I have not posted anything that involves illicit, or illegal things, not are such things in posts involving our children. The items she is upset about is pictures I've liked involving other women.
You ex has no right to dictate what you can or cannot post on Facebook. The same is true vice-versa. If and wwhen this is an issue, it needs to be addressed in a court order.
Dictate, no, but use pressure to possibly affect child custody and child support, yes. Even if your divorce has been finalized, if your kids aren't 18, your ex can use your kids to justify lots of things. Your child custody and child support can still be affected, so you best bet is to see your own family lawyer who helped you with the divorce.
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