After drinks an afternoon with my wife turned verbally abusive and aggressive. My anger ignited when despite my telling her 4 to 5 times to stop or I would have to phyically restrain her. She continued chiding me and called 911 after I pushed her away from me. To make a long story short the Police arrived heard both sides of the story and decided to jail me even though my wife realized she had provoked the situation, and pleaded with the officers to release me as she had no desire to press any charges. 5-7hrs later, the Police release me on bail, with a temporary restraining order (TRO) that prevents me from coming within 100 yards of my wife or my residence. I can ill afford separate living quarters due to unemployment... How can one remove this TRO and request charges be dropped?