First of all, calling the Family Court Judge "filthy lawless" on a website will do nothing to help your case.
Secondly, what was told to you was completely correct. You cannot appeal a default judgment because the court did not consider any arguments made on your behalf.
If the order was entered on default, then the only way to get your case heard is to make a motion to vacate the default judgment.
Seth D. Schraier, Esq. Law Office of Seth D. Schraier 3647 Broadway Suite 4G New York, New York 10031 http://www.SchraierLaw.com (914) 907-8632
First, don't even think about doing anything unless you can let go of the anger.
Second, file the Order to Show Cause to vacate as stated. You do need to provide information that would aid your defense. The fact that you were scheduled for another case may be a good excuse, but the defense is important as well.
Rory Alarcon, Esq., is a New York attorney practicing the areas of Family Law, Matrimonial Law, Foreclosure Defense, Consumer Defense and other areas of general practice primarily in Suffolk & Nassau County. His office, Alarcon Law Firm, practices only in New York State and offers the best attorney rates in the Long Island area. His office may be reached at (631) 867-2348.