While I would need more information before I could provide you with a proper response, you need to have completed service on your wife. Since the process server could not serve her, the Court wants you to file a motion for alternative service (Federal Express).
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I agree with the prior answer in that it is often hard to answer questions without full information and I do not want to give incorrect information. It seems like the Judge wants to make sure that your Wife has actual notice of the proceeding before granting you the divorce. This benefits you as well since it will be harder for her to open the divorce later on claiming she was never served. Since you are already on your way to finalizing the case, you may want to hire an attorney to make sure your substituted service is good and your default is processed. This should not cost as much as having representation from the start. Otherwise, there are motion forms on-line that you can get from the judiciary web site that might help you with the form. Good luck.
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