You can ask to be allowed to take the exemption, particularly if you are current in your support obligations. If allowed, this should be reduced to a court order. There is a special IRS form which must be signed by the other parent. Make this request of the AG or ASA handling the case if you are not represented by counsel.
You can request it yes. The mother must agree. It does not say if this is a paternity case. I am assuming it is. The deduction is a negotiated item. Under the law the custodial parent gets the deduction if there is no agreement in a court order stating otherwise. The law that applies is the federal tax law. Parties are always free to agree otherwise. Parties often rotate the exemption so one party gets it one year and the other the following. We usually say one get even and one gets odd years. This is always a good position to take if she does not agree that you get it every year. She really has no incentive to agree to give the exception to you. You could always argue that you have a greater need and/or you will benefit more from using it if in fact that is the case. Since I do not have all the facts I really do not know.
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Yes you can ask the court for this situation. The IRS regulation states that whoever pays 50% plus $1.00 is entitled to the exemption. The custodial parent has to sign a form every year if the court orders a change to you on the exemption.
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