I advise my clients to save all issues that arise during the week to one long email per week instead of multiple short ones. Additionally pretend the other party is a someone you do business with, that will help you keep it very business like and polite. You do not have to respond to the other party immediately unless it is an emergency. It is extremely difficult to do this but really helps if you can.
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Email is the best form to document what is said, as it shows the account it came from and is time stamped. I often tell my clients to only communicate by email, not even text messages.
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I certainly agree with the answers provided. I also suggest that my high conflict clients to use "My Family Wizard." This program is a service that helps keep conflict to a minimum when co-parenting and provides documentation to what was said and when. There is also a section for the parents to download important medical and educational records so that they do not have to engage in discussions about how the children are progressing. There is a small yearly fee but most of my clients say it is worth the small cost.
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